By Dr. Margaret Paul
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July 19, 2010
Leah called me for a phone session because she was menopausal and was having a very hard time losing weight. She had gained 12 pounds and was unhappy about it.
"Everything I used to do doesn't work anymore," she told me. "I used to be able to cut back on my food for a few days or a week and lose 5 pounds. Now nothing happens. Even with exercise. I don't know what to do."
I am not a nutritionist - I am an author and an Inner Bonding facilitator. However, health and nutrition have been favorite subjects for me for the last 61 years. And I'm also an older woman who encountered the very same problem with weight as Leah.
So, I want to share with you what has worked for me and for many other older women (as well as young women and men) I've worked with.
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As we age, we need MUCH less food, and this can be challenging. I had to accept that my body needs much less food than before menopause. I don't know how it works, but I still have tons of energy eating much less food. It took awhile to accept this, as I love food, but now it seems normal to not eat much.
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The food you eat needs to be nutritionally dense, and preferably organic, to maintain weight and health. This means lots and lots of vegetables. Vegetables are the most nutrient dense food there is, so to lose or maintain weight, we needs lots of veggies. Some people do well on a vegetarian or vegan diet, while others need animal protein, so you need to tune into your body and see what works for you.
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It is vitally important to stay connected with your feelings and to learn to connect with your personal source of spiritual guidance. If you are accustomed to filling your loneliness and emptiness with food, now is a great time to learn to fill it with love, which comes from your source. If you have previously not learned how to take loving care of yourself, now is a great time to learn. You will likely not be able to eat less and in a very healthy way if you do not learn how to take full responsibility for your own feelings. So, essential to health is practicing Inner Bonding.
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Health, rather than weight, needs to be what motivates you. Creating vibrant health is so important as we grow older, at least it is for me. I love being healthy and I want to live to a healthy old age, without chronic degenerative diseases. The only way to do this is to make sure that what goes into your body is nutrient dense and not loaded with chemicals, and that what goes into your mind is loving to you. My rule of thumb regarding what I eat is: if they didn't eat it 200 years ago, I don't eat it now.
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And finally, exercise. It is vital to find exercise that you love to do and do it daily. It can be a fast walk in nature, or dancing, or a sport, but you need to be consistent about it. And you won't be consistant about it if you don't love it.
That's it! At 83 I have more energy that I did at 20, and I got sick far more often at 20 than I do now!
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MarkLersch - Longmont - 07/20/2010 04:55 PM
Whew! Wikipedia says ice cream has been around for more than a thousand years. Margaret, your article made me hungry...do the guidelines apply to middle-aged men too?
Seriously, good info. Karen and I had been really getting into green smoothies for breakfast and then recently stopped. You are re-inspiring me, but we had gotten so burned out on them to the point where I almost gag when I see a green drink.
Does anyone have any recipes for good tasting green smoothies (our recipe usually included some combo of bananas, fresh spinach, green powder, apples, frozen mangoes, rice milk or water, almonds, flax seeds...and additionally in mine- peanut butter/almond butter, raw cacoa powder, raw egg, green tea powder)? By the way, just writing about this makes me want to gag... I would welcome any suggestions for GOOD tasting healthy green smoothies!
Thanks,
Mark
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Ivanka - Mississauga - 07/20/2010 06:47 PM
Hi Mark,
Here are 3 of my favourite:
#1:
4 very ripe kiwis
1 ripe banana
3 stalks celery
2 cups water
#2:
2 bosc pears
1 handful of raspberries
4-5 leaves of kale
2 cups water
#3:
5 leaves of kale (can be purple)
¼ avocado (I add half of it)
juice of half lime
pinch of salt
2 roma tomatoes
2 cups water
Enjoy!
Ivanka
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Lori_A - Calgary - 07/20/2010 07:14 PM
I had a great one today.
8 leaves Romaine
5 cups of watermelon
1 cup of water
I use a VitaMix and this drink is really watery. Great on a hot summer day for lunch.
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lindsayswisdom - 07/20/2010 11:54 PM
mine are really simple:
very ripe banana and/or 1 c.frozen blueberries.Frozen banana is good too.
2 c.water
5 or 6 leaves of kale-discard stem and use just leaves,stem is bitter
I've just started adding a large piece of lemon for tartness.I want to move into making savory smoothies
Green Smoothie Revolution has tons of recipes too.
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Dr.Margaret - Berthoud - 07/21/2010 05:30 AM
Mark, homemade ice cream made from raw cream and honey - which is what they did 1000 years ago - is wonderful! It's the pasteurized ice cream that we buy in stores that is junk. There was no packaged ice cream 1000 years ago!
My green smoothies are quite simple. Since I don't do well with lots of fruit, here is my favorite recipe:
2 apples
romaine
kale
parsley
Pure Synergy green powder
E3Live
My body must really do well on this, since I've been doing it for a long time and I still really like it!
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Dr.Margaret - Berthoud - 07/21/2010 05:31 AM
Oh, and I use 4 c. water.
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MarkLersch - Longmont - 07/21/2010 05:41 AM
Thanks for the suggestions...some of them sound really good. I think that I must have the metabolic type where I don't do well with a lot of sweet fruit and prefer more protein...probably would not work very well to throw a raw buffalo burger into the drink, however. :)
Thanks everyone, we will try some of them,
Mark
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Dr.Margaret - Berthoud - 07/21/2010 08:52 AM
Mark, you are too funny! Justme, thanks for the recommendation - sprouting is really great.
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SharonPearson - Anderson - 07/21/2010 09:31 AM
Thanks Margaret and everybody for this discussion! As a now 58 year old woman, eating/weight has been a challenge for me too. I have had to completely rework my eating (which I needed to do anyway!!!) But what has been most helpful this year is to not think about losing weight-- which keeps my attention in a negative direction-- but to think in terms of optimal health and energy (which I greatly enjoy ;>}). Finding my spritely, strong, flexible, energetic 58 self is a must more positive thought process for me since I emotionally abused my self in the past about diets/weight. More power to our healthy bodies and the spirits they encase and reflect!
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suziqzee - Charlotte - 08/11/2018 07:30 AM
I put on a lot of weight after menopause/complete hysterectomy. I, too, am focusing on eating healthy food, exercising and also learning to live without a full stomach.
Scherazade mentioned once that she tells her IC she will not stuff her tummy any longer. Though I was normal weight most of my life, I did use food to soothe me and got used to the feeling of fullness in my stomach most of the time. I used to thin out hot chocolate, put it in a thermos, and drink it all day long.
Embracing the lightness of an empty stomach is hard to do but each day it gets a bit easier.
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suziqzee - Charlotte - 08/11/2018 07:33 AM
Mark, I wanted to mention some of my healthy breakfasts-- none of which are smoothies. I am so carb sensitive that I cannot tolerate most fruit (other than occasional small amt of berries).
Here's what I eat for bkfst most days:
-organic cottage cheese with stevia sweetened jam or a little bit of berries
-solid kefir in a cup sweetened with erythritol or stevia sweetened jam
-scrambled free range eggs with israeli salad & avocado
-organic bacon or turkey or goat cheese or hard boiled egg in a wrap where I use romaine lettuce in lieu of bread
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