Daily InspirationJust as you would not think to give a cigarette, an alcoholic drink or a recreational drug to a crying child, consider not using substances to soothe your agitated inner child. An upset child, inner or outer, needs love. You will learn what to do to soothe your feelings when you are ready to learn about what you may be doing to cause them and what your inner child needs to feel loved by you. By Dr. Margaret Paul
"Great experience. It was the first time I was exposed to group work and it
was empowering, raising my energy level. I enjoyed a sense of community,
'bonding' in this loving for ourselves and other's work. I come back home full
of enthusiasm about continuing my work with Margaret and going into deeper levels." Rowe, MA, 4/04
"I am a therapist with 25 years of experience, have been in long term therapy in the past, do yoga, shinkiko (energy work), exercise & generally take care of myself, but found the workshop so helpful in fully illuminating my self-abandonment tendencies - I came here with my friend who lost her husband & child - to support her and to learn the technique for my practice, but found it so important for me." Kripalu Workshop, Lenox, MA, 10/09
"This was wonderful. The workshop has definitely helped to establish a deeper bond with my inner child, and given me a path to help and listen to him. It's also been helpful in integrating my connection to Spirit and my relationship to how to let Spirit flow through me and nourish me. Thank you! Rowe, MA Workshop, April 2000
'This workshop was an excellent introduction to the process of Inner Bonding. Margaret Paul is a wonderful leader. She is articulate, loving, grounded and open. I felt very safe. I learned a great deal.' Rowe, MA Workshop, 4/08
'Learning about Inner Bonding has been like learning the secret to life. I have been struggling in my life for so long - spinning in circles. Inner Bonding has a clear, logical method to healing and becoming all you can be. I am blown away by what I have learned and I am grateful.' Kripalu Workshop, 9.10
"This is truly core work in the emotional-psychological realm. It has taken me to new insights and new vistas at many, many levels. The domain of spirit is so beautifully married to the 'family of origin self' in Margaret's work. [She was] magnificent, thorough, well informed."
Toronto Workshop, April, 2000
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