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'It was an incredible experience of growth, learning and healing.  It was so important for me in terms of breaking through my denial, and to be able to make that commitment to myself to being loving.  What I liked most about the Intensive is that it is life-changing when I apply all the tools that I've learned.  The intensity of the personal experience in addition to learning from others' experiences allows for deep healing and transformation.  Some benefits of the Intensive are seeing tremendous role modeling of being a Loving Adult.  It is a safe, loving community that is formed.  You are able to create life-long connections and relationships with like-minded individuals.  I feel such gratitude for Margaret and this experience - what an incredible gift!' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.2011

Lauren Cammack

(This is from the April, 2020 5-Day Intensive - the first one we have done on Zoom. It was very successful!)

Attending an Intensive with Dr. Margaret Paul is giving yourself the gift of learning how to embody the Inner Bonding process. If you want to master becoming a Loving Adult to your Inner Child, then there’s no better place to be than at Dr. Paul’s intensive. You will discover the holes in your current Inner Bonding process – whether that’s challenges around feeling your feelings, accessing guidance, or taking loving actions, and with loving support of Dr. Paul, you will be given feedback and tools to fill those very holes. Even better, you will have the benefit not only of learning from your own work with Dr. Paul, but also of learning from the work of every other participant in the program, which can be as deeply if not more impactful from your own work. You will see aspects of yourself in every participant, and as a result will gain tools from every coaching session, every role modeling exercise, or Anger process Dr. Paul does with others.

Having studied Inner Bonding for close to a decade now, I’m constantly amazed how every time I attend an intensive, I learn how much deeper I can go in this work to grow my Loving Adult and to live a life of peace, and joy, instead of fear, anxiety and sadness.

This last intensive showed me how often I have indulged a wounded part of me that likes to feel sad, worrying feelings as a means to “control” my helplessness over relationships and my career. During this intensive I had my first powerful experience of watching my wounded self try to make me miserable as I woke up by telling me lies about the future, and I was able to CATCH IT and SIT ON IT as Margaret likes to say. And the result is I was able to feel JOY for the rest of the day where normally that feeling could have lingered for days.

I was also able to stay inside the intention to learn with my husband during a three and a half hour conversation about things that he’d experienced that I needed to hear but normally would have avoided or reacted to or shut down. What a gift to both of us!

If you have relationship issues, or if you are struggling to stop sourcing your value from WHAT YOU DO, or WHO YOU LOVE, or WHO LOVES YOU and are ready to start sourcing your value from WHO YOU ARE – YOUR ESSENCE – and those UNIQUE QUALITIES OF GOD IN YOU – then get yourself to an Intensive ASAP! It will be the best investment of time and money you could EVER make for yourself. And this is speaking as someone with decades of therapy and inner work under my belt!

"[Of greatest value was] working with my issues and connecting with God to ask for resolution and assistance and acceptance of self."
Ron Davis

"The best thing I've ever done for myself. It has evolved my soul. Truly miraculous!" Couples Intensive, Santa Fe, 8/04
Cynthia Collins

'I experienced trauma as a child and I then lived life as a victim.  I lived a life of narcissistic self-loathing.  I don't have to do that anymore.  Margaret Paul is a Master Teacher of Life and words cannot describe what this Intensive meant to me.  What am I worth?  What are you worth?  I hope you think you're worth it to dive into Inner Bonding.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 1/2010
Gale McCray

"The Inner Bonding Intensive is a life-changing experience in which participants learn what it truly means to care for ones self, as well as how to recognize when one is not caring for himself or herself. It's packed with information, process and practice, and you leave with a deep understanding of what it means to truly love yourself now and in the future." Intensive, Lucerne Valley, CA, 7/05
Kathy Norman