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To say I’m grateful is doing the Intensive a disservice.  Grateful feels like a “typical" thing to say and NOTHING about this weekend felt typical.  It was not the “same old therapy”.  I have been in therapy at different times in my life and the same issues were always discussed...again and again and again.  And while traditional therapy is a brave step for someone to take when they need help, it just wasn’t enough for me - something was still missing. Inner Bonding is like finding that last missing piece to a puzzle!  It is logical, practical and results oriented.  It is a tool that works.  Already today I was able to catch quite a few false beliefs!  I listened for them and stopped when I heard them.  I took the time to know where they came from and I allowed myself to feel the hurt that  I know was damaging to me as a child.  Then I let myself know that it wasn’t the truth about me and finally, I let myself feel what it feels like when you are loving to yourself.  I know that I can and will do these few simple steps to retrain my brain to know love.  It WILL be my sacred privilege to take care of and love myself...my soul…my essence. Thank you Margaret.  You are a miracle and I will be forever in your debt.  Southern California Advanced Intensive - 2.15

'The Intensive was truly amazing. I had read Dr. Paul's literature and was already seeing the positive results of the Inner Bonding process in myself and my marriage. The Intensive took it to a much higher level by giving us the opportunity to practice and apply the Inner Bonding steps with Dr. Paul's guidance. It was like having the opportunity to ride a bicycle after having only read how to do so. My wife and I both had major breakthroughs which I am certain will improve our marriage. It was incredibly helpful and educational to see the other members of our group practice the Inner Bonding process during individual and couple's sessions with Dr. Paul. in a group therapy setting. It was also helpful for my wife and I to see three other couples experiencing the same issues we were experiencing and see them learn to apply the Inner Bonding process to resolve their conflicts.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.13

'Inner Bonding is a very comprehensive 6-step process that has empowred me to connect with my higher power, feel my deep feelings & emotions and look at the challenges in life with awareness of my wounded self and the true essence of my inner child. It provides the techniques to compassionately love ourselves which is the spiritual path.' 5-Day Intensive, 10.15 - Loveland, CO

"'Hello good world' said the cat. during a pause at the inner bonding five days intensive i was walking the streets in my city and i was passing a little white and black cat. i felt kind of drawn to her. i greeted her and talked to her, and she came closer. i was feeling good, and i caressed her. she liked it and blinked with her eyes. 'hello good world' she suddenly said. 'i know how the world works', she said to me. 'so do i', i told her. 'It is all about bringing love into the world'! 'yes' she said, and you are very welcome to join me in it'. 'i know what you have been through', she continued, 'and from now on life for you will start to get better'. 'yes, dear cat, i said 'thanks to Dr. Margaret Paul I was made aware so beautifully what love really is, to pay attention to my feelings, and how to get past old trauma and heartbreak.' 'Good, said the cat, 'nice to meet you', and again she blinked with her eyes. 'Say greetings to Margaret'. 'Oh yes, I'll do that' I said 'and goodbye dear cat, thank you for letting me join the new good world!' ...And now i can stand firmly on the ground. i belong to this good world. it's the same world as before but now i see all the good i was not aware of. Hidden talents also came out... see cat story above. it was the first time i had the feeling to belong to a group...deep hidden emotions and pain of each of us were healed...together we have held a beautiful safe space where i was feeling accepted and loved." November, 2023

'This experience has been phenomenal in deepening my understanding of Inner Bonding, and to continue my self quest.  I fully embrace it as part of my growth, wisdom and courage to nurture inner peace and love in all aspects of my life.  Most important to me is the constant connection to Spirit and Guidance.  I thank you for this incredibly enriching experience.'  Colorado Intensive 10.14

"This was my first Inner Bonding Intensive and I was not sure what to expect, though I had high hopes of improving my connection to my guidance. The Intensive far surpassed what I hoped for. The experience of doing deep work with Margaret and watching others do their own work was very powerful and moved me forward spiritually in ways I couldn't have imagined. I'm looking forward to going to my next Intensive next summer! Thank you to Margaret and all my fellow Inner Bonders for providing a safe and loving environment to grow in." Colorado Intensive, 7/07
Mary McCanta