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"I have just completed the Intensive, and it has been truly life changing for me. I have never previously been able to identify any false beliefs I hold; probably because I have been so busy engaging in self-abandoning behaviours. Through the Intensive, I have started listening to my feelings/my Inner Child, recognized many false beliefs and self-abandoning behaviours I was not aware of, and I have met my Higher Guidance. I have done so by working with Dr Paul directly and by paying attention to my Inner Child and Wounded Self while witnessing other participants work. I have tried other therapeutic modalities that were all helpful to a degree but Inner Bonding and the Intensive helped me ‘go deeper’ quickly and made me see clearly. What’s even more mind-blowing is that some of the modalities I have practiced on and off for a few years (EFT tapping, CBT) are suddenly working well when they previously did not help, or only helped a little. I believe this is because I am now practicing EFT/CBT with a different intention behind it; when previously my Wounded Self was in charge, I am now practicing them from my Loving Adult Self/Higher Guidance. The love and support from other participants, Dr Paul and the three Facilitators in Training during the Intensive was overwhelming – initially it felt scary seeing so many strangers on the screen but the fear quickly went away, and I have shared things in the group that I have never spoken to anyone about before. Please don’t hesitate – the Intensive will change your life. The Intensive has been hard work/challenging as I experienced many painful feelings and wounded self beliefs but staying open to learning to love myself got me through to seeing unbelievable life changing benefits."
March 25th 2026 Intensive.

'The Intensive was truly amazing. I had read Dr. Paul's literature and was already seeing the positive results of the Inner Bonding process in myself and my marriage. The Intensive took it to a much higher level by giving us the opportunity to practice and apply the Inner Bonding steps with Dr. Paul's guidance. It was like having the opportunity to ride a bicycle after having only read how to do so. My wife and I both had major breakthroughs which I am certain will improve our marriage. It was incredibly helpful and educational to see the other members of our group practice the Inner Bonding process during individual and couple's sessions with Dr. Paul. in a group therapy setting. It was also helpful for my wife and I to see three other couples experiencing the same issues we were experiencing and see them learn to apply the Inner Bonding process to resolve their conflicts.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.13

It gave me answers to the unanswered questions. It is a turning point in my life - for the better.
Raya Johansson

"I am so thankful for having the opportunity to experience this intensive. I want everyone I love to go and experience it. I've never been exposed to a group that was so supportive, loving and nonjudgmental. No where in the world can you find a more empowering process." Couples Intensive, Lucerne Valley, CA - 8/01
Cindy Marks

"It is a life changing experience each and every time I attend an Intensive.  'Change your life, attend an Intensive." Advanced Intensive, N.Y., 11/07

Cindy Shore

'My experience of the Intensive was being part of a diverse group of the most amazing people - each there for their own growth yet learning from the work of each other member.  Dr. Margaret Paul teaches the actual Inner Bonding process through the direct work she does with each participant and she creates a safe, supportive and nurturing environment where I was privileged to see each member of our group make life-changing breakthroughs.  The best part is that I am leaving here knowing how to continue my growth using the Inner Bonding process.'  Colorado 5-Day Intensive - June 2015