Intensives

Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer Intensives for both individuals and couples.

 

In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself.

  • Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
     
  • Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
     
  • Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
     
  • Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
     
  • Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.

The 5-Day Intensive maximum of 12-13 people provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core self, your wounded self, and your higher guidance. We work with Inner Bonding six hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.

In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships. 

"Margaret’s Inner Bonding Intensive was life-changing, and let me explain.  I’m not using that as a platitude.  What I mean is that applying her divinely inspired process to one’s life actually changes everything.  Through Inner Bonding we are given the tools to develop an incredibly powerful and loving relationship with ourselves.  We open to our innate beauty and tenderness and our deserving-ness of love and care.  We develop a strong, healthy self-advocate who goes after our dreams, believes in ourselves, and creates magic.  AND we connect deeply to our guidance, that wise voice inside that has profound answers for us. WOW! The experiential nature of the program makes sure we both experience and anchor these transformations right then and there, giving us a newfound tool belt for weathering the complexities of life with grace and joy.  As a professional in the coaching / transformation field, I have pretty high standards (lol). I was honored to have been facilitated in such deep healing work, and new adventures abound in my life!"  ~ Barb Wade, Speaker, Author, Coach

"During the intensive, my true self, the pure and innocent child, became so clearly apparent and vivid and now he is a part of my daily life - no longer neglected. This experience has truly changed my being and life." ~Mike Devine, Farmer

Who Should Attend:

  • Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
     
  • Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
     
  • Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
     
  • People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
     
  • Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
     
  • Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
     
  • Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.

The investment for Dr. Margaret's virtual Intensives is $2,195.00.

A $650 non-refundable deposit secures your space. Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.

For more Intensive testimonials, click here.

 

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Daily Inspiration

Which is your highest priority - safety or love? Is it more important to you to be safe from rejection, engulfment, failure, hurt, or is it more to you to be a loving person? Are you loving until fear comes up and then retreat to your anger, withdrawal, resistance or compliance, or do you stay loving and open to learning in the face of fear? Today, notice which is unconsciously your higher priority - safety or love, and make a conscious choice.

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My (what I thought was a good) marriage of 27 years had just ended, my AA sponsor of 21 years had just died and the grief was so overwhelming I was not able to do my job so I quit work when a leave of absence was denied. Life as I had known it was over. I was scared, overwhelmed, stressed to the max, feeling alone and abandoned and worthless and inadequate and just wanted to be dead. The divorce will have been final 2 months by the time I return home from this Intensive and I know now that I can face what lies ahead without feeling victimized and violated if I'll utilize the tools I have gained at the Intensive. I will actually be able to self actualize and be authentic "in the real world". I can give up expecting others to take care of me and I can give up attempting to control what others say, think and do. I am grateful for this life changing event
Julie Hammer

"I had read a number of Margaret's books before I attended the Intensive but knew that I only had what is something called 'Book Learning.' I needed to practice Inner Bonding in a deep and regular way to fully understand it. Margaret's devotion and commitment to helping others is insirational. She has a dep connection to God and is very loving, kind and also direct and honest." Lucerne Valley Intensive, 11/06
Paul Yarema

'Initially on arriving at the Intensive I was very apprehensive, but, as we progressed through the work it started to become very evident that deep healing was taking place for all involved. I feel I got to address some deep core issues, and also leave the Intensive with a toolset that allows me to integrate the work into my daily life.'  Colorado Intensive 4.15


P.H.

"I believe the experience of the Intensive was life altering. For the first time, after many years of searching through countless therapies, I have discovered the gift of giving up control. Through Inner Bonding I will focus on being a loving adult to my wounded inner child. I'll let my higher self guide me and I will not hand her to others to fill me." Santa Barbara Intensive, 11/04
Marcy Bloomstein

"This has been the most wonderful experience of my lifetime. Inner and Outer Bonding (wonderful group of people) is truly amazing and truly divine - a release from bondage. It is not only a unique experience in itself but also an ongoing inspiration." Santa Barbara Intensive, 12/05
Ann Forsyth

What I liked best was the energy that Margie and Inner Bonding created in the room, the bonding that was then created within the group. And the feeling of safety that resulted was of greatest value because it allowed me to be unafraid and completely truthful.
Jimmer Bolden



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DAILY INSPIRATION

Which is your highest priority - safety or love? Is it more important to you to be safe from rejection, engulfment, failure, hurt, or is it more to you to be a loving person? Are you loving until fear comes up and then retreat to your anger, withdrawal, resistance or compliance, or do you stay loving and open to learning in the face of fear? Today, notice which is unconsciously your higher priority - safety or love, and make a conscious choice.

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10/14/2026 08:00 AM
5-Day Virtual Intensive
Dr. Margaret Paul

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