Daily Inspiration

Relationship problems often center around control. The wounded self always wants to be in control and not be controlled. Today, notice with compassion the part of you that wants to control and the part of you that resists being controlled. Then, instead of controlling or resisting, open to Guidance about what is in your highest good.

By Dr. Margaret Paul

"The Intensive is a deep immersion in Relationship of the self to the Self.  It is an open invitation to learn to truly love oneself and heal the essential Relationship from which all other Relationships are patterned.  The opportunity to do this work is phenomenal - the opportunity to do it in a community of like-minded, non-judgmental, openhearted friends is a rare & precious gift.  The Intensive is indeed the most loving gift one can ever give oneself." Santa Barbara, CA Intensive, 2/08
Carol Kennedy

This was one of the most extraordinary experiences in my life. Through years of therapeutic and spiritual work, I was able to become very competent in my outside world. However, my primary relationship with my husband suffered. I had never healed a lonely, wounded Inner Child, and was protecting her with an angry adolescent. Through this intensive - connecting with G-d and embracing my wounded self in a non-judgmental, supportive environment - I am beginning to feel whole, connected. Recharged. That feeling of helplessness and despair is being replaced by desire and love for a new way of life. Thank you.
Elaine Katz

"The 5-Day Intensive was a great experience. The information I learned will help me grow to be my very best person that I can be. I learned we always have choices. Thank you Margaret and Sharon." Durango, CO Intensive, 10/07
Catherine Hopper

"In a supportive and loving environment, I was able to explore my thoughts, behaviors and intentions when in relationship to myself and others. The Inner Bonding process offers a way to freedom, clarity and joy. If you are ready to take full responsibility for yourself, open to what is possible for you and experience an Intensive." Santa Fe Intensive, 5/04
Karen L. McGinn

"I have had many different types of therapy and self-help experiences throughout my life since age 16.  Inner Bonding not only integrates the best parts of therapies that may be beneficial, but weeds out the parts that have not proven to be helpful.  I have healed and grown more in one week using the Inner Bonding process than I have with any other therapy, self-help book or spiritual path.  I understand myself now and know what I need to stay connected to myself and God to be successful & truly happy." Durango, CO Intensive, 4/08

Lisa Malzhan

"This was the right time for me to come - I was able to see and hear my inner child and bring her into conscious awareness. Another wonderful experience was a breakthrough on an image of Guidance as a Loving Hand for me to be embraced by, to stand in, to be sheltered and directed and led by. The energy work the last day was wonderful - I experienced a real release - leaving of old energy stuff. I felt a significant release and a re-energizing of personal power. Thank you for creating a safe place for me to do this work." Ossining, NY - August 25-29, 2000
Agnes Griffey

5-Day Intensive

Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer five-day intensive workshops for both individuals and couples.

In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself. 

  • Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
  • Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
  • Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
  • Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
  • Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.

The workshop maximum of 12 people (occasionally 13) provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core Self, your wounded self, and your Higher Guidance. We work with Inner Bonding eight to nine hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.

In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships. 

"The Intensive exceeded my expectations. The atmosphere, safe environment, fun and gentle support provided the most amazing place in which to heal, learn and grow.  Sunrise was the perfect place to do the workshop - a loving, peaceful retreat.  I am definitely going back." ~ Irena Grgona, MSc Psychology Student & Executive Assistant, London, UK, 10.14

"The Inner Bonding Intensive is the most profound healing experience I have ever had.  It helped me to embody my Loving Adult and I gained enormous clarity about the false beliefs of my Wounded Self.  I have been propelled further along the path of having a very strong connection with my Guidance.  I am immensely grateful to Dr. Margaret Paul for making her work available in this format." A.M.,  2.14

Who Should Attend:

  • Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
  • Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
  • Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
  • People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
  • Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
  • Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
  • Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.

CEUs are available for Dr. Margaret Paul's workshops and Intensives.

Dr. Margaret Paul is certified as an OASAS Education and Training Provider.

Investment: The investment for Dr. Margaret's Intensives, which includes room andboard, is $1995 per person. For a couple, the cost is $1895 per person.

A $500 non-refundable deposit secures your space.Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.

For more Intensive testimonials, click here.


Date Event Location Hosted By
03/16/2016 02:00 PM 5-Day Inner Bonding in Action Intensive Longmont Karen Kral
04/13/2016 10:00 AM Loveland, Colorado 5-Day Intensive Loveland Dr. Margaret Paul
06/15/2016 10:00 AM Loveland, Colorado 5-Day Intensive Loveland Dr. Margaret Paul
10/12/2016 10:00 AM Loveland, Colorado 5-Day Intensive Loveland Dr. Margaret Paul
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3-Day Advanced Intensive

The 3-day Advanced intensive is for people who have already attended an Intensive or have taken the 30-Day at-home 'Love Yourself' course or Dr. Margaret's 9-month mentoring program. This is an opportunity to do very deep inner work, as well as develop your sense of community.

CEUs are available for Dr. Margaret Paul's workshops and Intensives.

Dr. Margaret Paul is certified as an OASAS Education and Training Provider.

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Weekend or 3-Day Intensive

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