Daily Inspiration

We cannot get to know each other just through talking. We get to know each other deeply through being - laughing, crying, playing, loving, conflict, learning. Words are easy - anyone can say anything about themselves, but we cannot hide our intent in our real interactions. We cannot know someone's heart through words alone.

By Dr. Margaret Paul

'The Inner Bonding Intensive is a deep, inspiring, awareness process.  I feel connected to my Guide, knowing the truth.  What I liked most about the Intensive was the clarity, experience and role model that Margaret is.  She is such a wise and tender woman...it makes me believe that to be open every day to life is possible.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.2011

Maria Rosa Casanovas

'These five days have given my husband & I the tools to achieve our desire for a whole & loving marriage.  We are looking forward to the rest of forever.  Thank you Dr. Margaret Paul for your love and dedication to this work.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.12

Cheri Broughton

"This intensive provided the transformational opportunity to move through deep, protective layers of pain and reclaim my being - to connect with my core self, truly experience my value and finally allow the love and respect of others into my being. It felt as if it is the beginning of my aliveness. Thank you Margie for your love, patience, intuition and extraordinary skill in facilitating the access to my own power." Lucerne Valley, CA June, 2000
Colin Horowitz

"The intensive is a safe and wonderful way to go deep into woundedness, to process and heal and to connect with spirit." Advanced Intensive, Amherst, MA, 10/04
C. Michael Stowers

"This was one of the best weekdends of my life. Such love, support, deep healing, growth and fun too. The layers of the wounded self are so deep and tricky. Each intensive I attend with an intention to learn I'm able to explore and heal the same core issues at a deeper level and move thru them much more quickly. Thanks to Margaret and the group for such a deep, rich and delightful experience. If you have attended a 5 day intensive give yourself a gift of an advanced intensive, it is sooo worth it." East Coast Advanced Intensive, 10/05
Merry Oislander

"Amazing, Amazing! I found an unequaled connection to everyone here, and more importantly, to myself. Thank you so much, Margie. Loved the center! Santa Fe, New Mexico - 4/2001
Kacie Stetson

5-Day Intensive

Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer five-day intensive workshops for both individuals and couples.

In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself. 

  • Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
  • Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
  • Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
  • Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
  • Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.

The workshop maximum of 12 people (occasionally 13) provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core Self, your wounded self, and your Higher Guidance. We work with Inner Bonding eight to nine hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.

In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships. 

"The Intensive exceeded my expectations. The atmosphere, safe environment, fun and gentle support provided the most amazing place in which to heal, learn and grow.  Sunrise was the perfect place to do the workshop - a loving, peaceful retreat.  I am definitely going back." ~ Irena Grgona, MSc Psychology Student & Executive Assistant, London, UK, 10.14

"The Inner Bonding Intensive is the most profound healing experience I have ever had.  It helped me to embody my Loving Adult and I gained enormous clarity about the false beliefs of my Wounded Self.  I have been propelled further along the path of having a very strong connection with my Guidance.  I am immensely grateful to Dr. Margaret Paul for making her work available in this format." A.M.,  2.14

Who Should Attend:

  • Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
  • Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
  • Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
  • People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
  • Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
  • Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
  • Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.

CEUs are available for Dr. Margaret Paul's workshops and Intensives.

Dr. Margaret Paul is certified as an OASAS Education and Training Provider.

Investment: The investment for Dr. Margaret's Intensives, which includes room andboard, is $2,195 per person. For a couple, the cost is $2,095 per person.

A $600 non-refundable deposit secures your space.Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.

For more Intensive testimonials, click here.


Date Event Location Hosted By
04/26/2017 10:00 AM Loveland, Colorado 5-Day Intensive Loveland Dr. Margaret Paul
06/14/2017 10:00 AM Loveland, Colorado 5-Day Intensive Loveland Dr. Margaret Paul
10/11/2017 10:00 AM Loveland, Colorado 5-Day Intensive Loveland Dr. Margaret Paul
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3-Day Advanced Intensive

The 3-day Advanced intensive is for people who have already attended an Intensive or have taken the 30-Day at-home 'Love Yourself' course or Dr. Margaret's 9-month mentoring program. This is an opportunity to do very deep inner work, as well as develop your sense of community.

CEUs are available for Dr. Margaret Paul's workshops and Intensives.

Dr. Margaret Paul is certified as an OASAS Education and Training Provider.

Date Event Location Hosted By
11/11/2016 09:00 AM East Coast Inner Bonding Advanced Intensive Long Island Dr. Margaret Paul
03/10/2017 09:00 AM Southern California 3-Day Advanced Intensive Anaheim Hills Dr. Margaret Paul
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Weekend or 3-Day Intensive

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