Getting Love vs. Being Loving

Welcome - we are glad you came for help!

Many of us grew up believing that getting love from others is what makes up happy, and creates a sense of worth and safety. You might be spending a lot of energy trying to get love, not realizing that everything you do to get love pushes love away.

Watch:

How Do You Try to Control Getting Love?

Listen:

Download

How to Create Intimacy

Read:

Getting Love vs. Being Loving .pdf

Village Login

Daily Inspiration

Today, put two sticky notes wherever you are that say: "What am I trying to control or avoid?" and "What is the loving action toward myself - what is in my highest good?" Whenever you feel any stress, ask these questions and allow the answers to come through you from your higher Self.

By Dr. Margaret Paul

Inner Bonding Products:

Image	Title
	Dear God, What Is Love? By Dr. Margaret Paul and Sheryl Paul
	InnerBonding Gift Certificate
	Lonely No More By Dr. Margaret Paul with Dr. Erika Chopich
no image for this product	COMPLETE SELF-LOVE - The Ultimate Collection

Explore More Inner Bonding

LATEST PUBLIC ARTICLES

Oct-27: Are You Giving Yourself Negative "Waking Suggestions"?

Oct-27: Chronic Illness and Inner Bonding

Oct-21: You Cannot Experience Spirit With A Closed Heart

Oct-21: Truth is Food for the Soul

DAILY INSPIRATION

Today, put two sticky notes wherever you are that say: "What am I trying to control or avoid?" and "What is the loving action toward myself - what is in my highest good?" Whenever you feel any stress, ask these questions and allow the answers to come through you from your higher Self.

By Dr. Margaret Paul

INNER BONDING EVENTS

Inner Bonding Events

10/14/2026 08:00 AM
5-Day Virtual Intensive
Dr. Margaret Paul

All Inner Bonding Events

More About Inner Bonding

Inner Bonding is a proven six-step self-healing process that has been developed and optimized over 30 years by Dr. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. and Dr. Erika Chopich, Ph.D. It’s comprehensive. It’s practical. And it always works when you do it.

Inner Bonding empowers you to self-heal the root causes of anxiety, depression, addictions, failed relationships and many other problems that inhibit your personal and spiritual growth and satisfaction. It teaches you how to love yourself rather than continue to abandon yourself, how to move beyond emotional dependency and attain emotional freedom, and how to heal the underlying control issues stemming from self-abandonment.