Getting Love vs. Being Loving
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Many of us grew up believing that getting love from others is what makes up happy, and creates a sense of worth and safety. You might be spending a lot of energy trying to get love, not realizing that everything you do to get love pushes love away.
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Daily Inspiration
Which is your highest priority - safety or love? Is it more important to you to be safe from rejection, engulfment, failure, hurt, or is it more to you to be a loving person? Are you loving until fear comes up and then retreat to your anger, withdrawal, resistance or compliance, or do you stay loving and open to learning in the face of fear? Today, notice which is unconsciously your higher priority - safety or love, and make a conscious choice.
By Dr. Margaret Paul










