Getting Love vs. Being Loving

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Many of us grew up believing that getting love from others is what makes up happy, and creates a sense of worth and safety. You might be spending a lot of energy trying to get love, not realizing that everything you do to get love pushes love away.

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Controlling behavior is neither good nor bad - it just does not serve us well. It was part of our survival as children and now is causing much of our pain. Noticing your controlling behavior with yourself and others with compassion and curiosity rather than with judgment, puts you on the fast lane to healing.

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Controlling behavior is neither good nor bad - it just does not serve us well. It was part of our survival as children and now is causing much of our pain. Noticing your controlling behavior with yourself and others with compassion and curiosity rather than with judgment, puts you on the fast lane to healing.

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