Getting Love vs. Being Loving

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Many of us grew up believing that getting love from others is what makes up happy, and creates a sense of worth and safety. You might be spending a lot of energy trying to get love, not realizing that everything you do to get love pushes love away.

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When you reach all of your goals and are still not peaceful and fulfilled, consider that you may be creating inner emptiness because your goal is to get love, safety, security and approval, rather than give love to yourself and others. Only when the love-that-is-God is guiding your way, will your emptiness be filled.

By Dr. Margaret Paul

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When you reach all of your goals and are still not peaceful and fulfilled, consider that you may be creating inner emptiness because your goal is to get love, safety, security and approval, rather than give love to yourself and others. Only when the love-that-is-God is guiding your way, will your emptiness be filled.

By Dr. Margaret Paul

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