Work with Dr. Margaret Paul
Dr. Margaret Paul consults on the phone and on Skype with both individuals and couples. If you are interested in Inner Bonding facilitation with Dr. Margaret, or just want some information, you can contact our Inner Bonding assistant, Valerie Lippincott, at 888-6INNERBOND (888-646-6372), or email her at firstname.lastname@example.org. Valerie will be happy to help you and answer any questions you have.
How I work with my clients:
My goal with my clients is to help them move into a deep sense of self-worth and personal power. I encourage them not to give me authority over them - not to put me up on a pedestal, but instead to learn to trust themselves, to become their own guru. I care deeply about my clients and I always do all I can to support them in supporting their highest good. Because I can see beyond their woundedness into their beautiful soul, I can help them to move beyond their erroneous beliefs about themselves and embrace who they really are as an incredible child of God. I do nothing to encourage their dependency on me. In my view, any therapist that supports dependency isn’t ethical. Instead, I help them to develop their access to their own higher guidance. In my 48 years of working with people, I’ve seen that there is no true healing without a spiritual connection, and traditional psychotherapy doesn’t help clients create this.
I have no agenda for my clients other than what they want for themselves, which enables me to be very patient and non-judgmental with them. This helps them to be patient and non-judgmental with themselves, which is vital for their healing.
I am warm and caring with them, but I don’t get involved with them on a personal level. I’m very transparent with them, often sharing experiences from my own life as a way of helping them feel safe in being vulnerable. Creating inner safety and safety between us is vitally important, but at the same time I’m very confrontative and straight-forward regarding what I see happening with them.
I work primarily by allowing my guidance to come through me and also allowing their guidance to come through me. I often receive a huge amount of information about the client this way, often with holographic pictures of their issues and how to help them.
I work very successfully with individuals, couples, friendships, family relationships and business partnerships
Daily InspirationNotice if your focus is on caretaking others, or taking care of yourself. Does your compassion go first to others, or first to your own feelings, your own Inner Child? Only when you have compassion for yourself first will you be able to take loving care of yourself and then extend your love and compassion to others. Compassion for others without caring for yourself may be manipulative - giving to get others to take care of you. By Dr. Margaret Paul
"I have a sense of direction now about healing myself that I never had before. Margaret was fantastic."
'I enjoyed the Inner Bonding process, it all came together and made sense at the 5th & 6th Step. I now look forward to applying it to relationships and my profession as an attorney.' Weekend Workshop - Kripalu - Lenox, MA 9.14
"It was very gentle, yet powerful. I have been doing Inner Bonding for 2 years and I was able to deepen my own understanding of the process. I loved the supportive environment and enjoyed the openness of the other participants. I was also able to deepen my connection with my child and spirit. Thank you for a wonderful experience!!!" Toronto Workshop - Toronto, Canada - 4/2001
"This process is a miracle for me. I have tried my whole life to have a connection with God and not until I found the Inner Bonding process, have I been able to make that connection. This process is helping me get in touch with my truth and honoring my truth without needing validation from others. I am looking forward to a passionate life full of love by connecting to God and bringing that love to myself and letting that love shine."
"The Inner Bonding workshop saved my life. I was just diagnosed as being
bipolar and had been out of work on disability. I now feel I can take care of
myself, love myself and face any challenges I come across by utilizing the Inner
Bonding process." Omega Workshop, 5/04
Dear Margaret, Thank you so much for addressing the question I asked in your last call on Healing Your Inner Parent. I had a huge “ah-ha” moment upon hearing part of your response. Thank you for your help. I am so grateful for wise and loving women like you who choose careers that bring so much support, encouragement, and empowerment to so many others. You make the world a better place. Warm blessings, Linda Quest