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'The Intensive was truly amazing. I had read Dr. Paul's literature and was already seeing the positive results of the Inner Bonding process in myself and my marriage. The Intensive took it to a much higher level by giving us the opportunity to practice and apply the Inner Bonding steps with Dr. Paul's guidance. It was like having the opportunity to ride a bicycle after having only read how to do so. My wife and I both had major breakthroughs which I am certain will improve our marriage. It was incredibly helpful and educational to see the other members of our group practice the Inner Bonding process during individual and couple's sessions with Dr. Paul. in a group therapy setting. It was also helpful for my wife and I to see three other couples experiencing the same issues we were experiencing and see them learn to apply the Inner Bonding process to resolve their conflicts.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.13

"My fourth intensive has offered me the challenge of fully embracing, enjoying and loving my essence, my little girl. Understanding how I control others and my environment using shame/guilt is an insight that I finally fully comprehend. The resistance I put up is so obvious to me now. I had no idea how much I controlled any love coming from within me or from others. The love I feel for others' little [inner] children was always kept from me since 'I didn't deserve love.' Now I clearly understand how this false belief is a way that I use to control the pain of abandonment. Now I look at my little girl's photo and think 'You mean she deserves all the love I so easily give to others?' I'm just getting used to the idea - could it really be true? Seeing the beauty in others and none in myself has been a way of life for me - now I want to put as much passion into loving my [inner]little girl as I've given to Tim's [her son] little boy and all my client's [inner] little kids. Little Jeanette has been waiting far too long to be loved unconditionally. Thanks to all you bring to the light for me and others to finally see, Margie!!!!" Los Angeles, May, 2000
Jeanette Boerger

'Inner Bonding made me meet God.  It gave me a family of 13 people who unconditionally gave me love and treated me with compassion.  It gave me the process to generate unlimited infinite love within me through my Guidance.  It was & will always be the most life-transforming experience towards growth & personal evolution.  The unconditional love and compassion that I received made me reveal the closely guarded dark secrets of my life.  I managed embracing truth, love and surrender to my higher self.  I gained self-empowerment through guidance of my Higher Self.  Recognizing forms of addictions and thereby gaining good health.  I learned how to live from the heart and become love.  I feel the strong sense of my purpose of life to be love and share with as many as I can.  Recommending the Intensive is to gift love forever…I wish that everyone on the planet does it.  I want to express my gratitude towards Margaret, Colin and my new 13 family members for all the love they gave me.  The pain I endured is a small price to pay for all that I have gained from Inner Bonding.  I understand the reason for walking the path in frightening darkness, as only now can I truly appreciate the illuminating light of my Higher Self.  I felt deep gratitude towards my Guidance for letting me survive the storm to see and experience God's grace.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.2011
Alpana Deo

"I wanted to wait for a week after I finished the intensive to write this as I wanted to reflect on my experience and not just write while in the 'glow' of the moment. Happily, that 'glow' has continued to be with me. At the intensive I faced some very core issues that were blocking my personal and spiritual growth. The love, support, and help from Margie, Nancy, Kelly and the whole group allowed me to access these issues and develop the tools with which to resolve them. I am so grateful for the experience. Although I know I still have a lot of work to do, the Inner Bonding Intensive has made a profound difference in my life. I cherish the new friends I found there, including myself. When I read the testimonials on the web prior to attending, I thought they were perhaps a little exaggerated. I was wrong - there really is no way to express with words how incredible the experience was. A big smile and a huge hug might be a start." Los Angeles, Feb. 2000
Susan Connor

"Please try this before giving up, I've seen it save couples that thought all was lost. Sometimes the issues are not what you think. You owe it to your relationship to try this." Couples Intensive, Santa Fe, 8/04
Steve Shore

My time here has changed my perspective on moments that have shaped me. I discovered feelings, beliefs, and views that I never would have had I not attended.  The intensive has answered questions that I have had my entire life.  It was an invaluable experience.  But you have to be ready to learn and grow.  If you aren’t open, it won’t work.