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"Inner Bonding is not something you can think your way through. It absolutely gives you the tools necessary to re-program the thinking into feelings and when you're really truly open you will see and find the truth! There is no joy or real love without this process. I am so grateful for Inner Bonding! -- Lucerne Valley Intensive, CA - May 2002
Linda Selvage -

Bonafide Transformative Experience!  True exercises in self-exploration within an atmosphere of authentic safety.  Dr. Paul’s unique process of Inner Bonding to identify what doesn’t work in a well lived life is sheer brilliance!  Empowerment comes from learning to be and do better in a fun-loving self and group supportive format.  An intensive experience in self growth to treasure for always.

'The hood has been pulled off.  The course has allowed me to see how my wounded child inside has been in charge and how it has suppressed my true self from loving others and myself.  The knowledge I have gained from Inner Bonding has become the missing piece of the puzzle of wholeness allowing me to operate as a responsible loving adult.  I was intimidated by the process and then relieved by the simplicity and finally amazed by the results.  I would recommend this to anyone open for change.' Colorado Intensive 4.14

'It was scary to be here with my partner.  It was a totally different experience from going alone 2 years ago.  But I again have learned invaluable lessons that will continue to help me learn to evolve in love.' Colorado Intensive 4.14

'All my life I always felt something was wrong with me and I felt very alone.  I tried all kinds of therapies throughout my life (I'm 58 now), everything from encounter groups, primal screaming to Hakomi, A&D Treatment center, Terri Kellogg, Intensive ACOA treatment, Hoffman Quadrinity Process to Avatar to private therapists and counsellors, to 12 Step groups to religions, and A Course in Miracles.  Although I felt relief from all of them and it kept me going, I was always left with me, the woman who never feels good enough, feels alone and lonely, very knowledgeable and educated but still unworthy and did I say alone and lonely?  Yeah, that continued.  I didn't know how to end this torture of being me.  I blamed it on my abusive childhood and most of all on me for being a loser and screw up.  Inner Bonding is the 1st therapeutic intervention that has taught me how to love myself.  It is a 'simple process', but not easy.  But now I know I have a model of recovery of self love that does work and will work if I work it.'   Colorado Intensive, 10.11

'Margaret's compassionate and non-judgmental presence provides the ideal model for how we can learn to be with our Selves in Inner Bonding: to be present with our fears, our false beliefs, our immature efforts to cope with pain & wounding that turn into maladaptive patterns.  All find a safe container for healing in the Inner Bonding process. Thank you.' Colorado Intensive 4.14