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"Inner Bonding is the most powerful and permanent process of healing I have ever experienced - and I've experienced a lot! What is so important about this work is that it taught me how to give myself what I have been seeking outside myself for years - in therapy, meditation, yoga, you name it. It taught me how to be the parent to myself that I always wanted but never had. How empowering to know that I truly do have all the resources inside I need to heal. I have a Master's in Spiritual Psychology. This work truly is Spiritual Psychology in action. Inner Bonding changed my life more profoundly than anything else I have ever done." Lucerne Valley Intensive, 7/06
Julia Padawer

"When I called Margie's office, Jan said, 'This is a life-changing experience,' At the other end of the phone, I thought, 'Yeah, right.' How do you change a 42 year old habit of being angry all the time in 5 days? I was in pain, so I came. I found out it wasn't about changing or fixing what was wrong with me. It's about embracing all of me, with courage, compassion, and love. I came alone. I'm going back home with a beautiful inner child who brings me wisdom, love and joy, and who is me. This has been phenomenal, and I know my life is forever changed." Lucerne Valley, CA, June, 2000
Marcia Tribolini

It is a wonderful, precious experience to be able to connect with the pain and heal it with love.  There are so many other insights on how I can now make my life be full of joy and peace.

'It was amazingly transformative - safe, grounded, practical, and yet tapping into a depth at personal, transpersonal, and spiritual healing.  Margaret Paul is very skilled and very wise as a therapist yet her work feels truly guided by spirit.  I have done many years of therapy & 12-step programs as well as become a therapist myself & here I was able to access & release some trapped beliefs & trauma that I had not been able to work through before.' Dolores, CO Intensive, June, 2009
Robin L. Richardson

When we came to our first intensive we were both emotionally drained and ready to walk away from the relationship. Months and months of anger, blaming, shaming, attacking, and withdrawing had taken their toll. We reached our turning point the first day when we both realized the simple truth - through the six steps of the Inner Bonding process - that the real issues were not with the other person, but within our individual selves. Almost miraculously, this simple (simple, not easy!) process not only allowed us to see the real source of our pain, but gave us concrete, incredibly effective tools to change the pain into joy. As a result, we have now reached the deepest most loving space ever in our relationship. Our love is solid and now we have the tools and process to keep it alive.
David Rhodes

"My fourth intensive has offered me the challenge of fully embracing, enjoying and loving my essence, my little girl. Understanding how I control others and my environment using shame/guilt is an insight that I finally fully comprehend. The resistance I put up is so obvious to me now. I had no idea how much I controlled any love coming from within me or from others. The love I feel for others' little [inner] children was always kept from me since 'I didn't deserve love.' Now I clearly understand how this false belief is a way that I use to control the pain of abandonment. Now I look at my little girl's photo and think 'You mean she deserves all the love I so easily give to others?' I'm just getting used to the idea - could it really be true? Seeing the beauty in others and none in myself has been a way of life for me - now I want to put as much passion into loving my [inner]little girl as I've given to Tim's [her son] little boy and all my client's [inner] little kids. Little Jeanette has been waiting far too long to be loved unconditionally. Thanks to all you bring to the light for me and others to finally see, Margie!!!!" Los Angeles, May, 2000
Jeanette Boerger