Intensives
Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer Intensives for both individuals and couples.
In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself.
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Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
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Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
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Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
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Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
- Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.
The 5-Day Intensive maximum of 12-13 people provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core self, your wounded self, and your higher guidance. We work with Inner Bonding six hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.
In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships.
"Margaret’s Inner Bonding Intensive was life-changing, and let me explain. I’m not using that as a platitude. What I mean is that applying her divinely inspired process to one’s life actually changes everything. Through Inner Bonding we are given the tools to develop an incredibly powerful and loving relationship with ourselves. We open to our innate beauty and tenderness and our deserving-ness of love and care. We develop a strong, healthy self-advocate who goes after our dreams, believes in ourselves, and creates magic. AND we connect deeply to our guidance, that wise voice inside that has profound answers for us. WOW! The experiential nature of the program makes sure we both experience and anchor these transformations right then and there, giving us a newfound tool belt for weathering the complexities of life with grace and joy. As a professional in the coaching / transformation field, I have pretty high standards (lol). I was honored to have been facilitated in such deep healing work, and new adventures abound in my life!" ~ Barb Wade, Speaker, Author, Coach
"During the intensive, my true self, the pure and innocent child, became so clearly apparent and vivid and now he is a part of my daily life - no longer neglected. This experience has truly changed my being and life." ~Mike Devine, Farmer
Who Should Attend:
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Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
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Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
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Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
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People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
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Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
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Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
- Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.
The investment for Dr. Margaret's virtual Intensives is $2,195.00.
A $650 non-refundable deposit secures your space. Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.
For more Intensive testimonials, click here.
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1 Day Inner Bonding Breakthrough
This is an Intensive for just 4 people. To learn about this Intensive, please click here.
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Daily Inspiration
Do you think more about what you have or about what you don't have? Notice the warmth and peace you feel when you are in gratitude for what you have. Notice the anxiety and sadness you feel when you think about what you don't have. Today, consciously choose gratitude throughout the day for every blessing that comes your way.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
'The Intensive was a profound healing & learning experience, both personally & professionally. It confirms my faith that we are always guided and never alone. And when your true intent is willingness to become a loving human being, that's when you start to feel the joy, peace and love in all areas of life. I loved seeing Margaret working and the continual sharing of the process between everyone present. The Intensive enhances the quality of your life & brings such joy and peace to oneself and others. You benefit from the powerful tools that are gained and experiencing the Inner Bonding process in a deep way far beyond just reading about it. It is such a benefit to be with people who are on the same path.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.2011
Grace Escaip
The intensive was truly an invaluable experience. Here Margaret goes very deep into the Inner Bonding process and there is ample room for individual work. I felt deeply supported when doing my inner work both by Margaret and the group. There’s a depth of connection with myself and God that I now leave with to support me to further integrate these principles into my life.
Victor Granville
"I came to the Intensive with no sense of how to get to my inner voice. That my child was wounded was apparent in everyday life - interactions with my wife, family, friends, all were reflecting a desire to have my little boy taken care of - and of my desire to take care of everyone else. But nothing of me. After the Intensive I finally have access to the tools. I've found my voice and I intend to keep my child safe and secure." L.A. Intensive, 2/05
Ray Barber
"I find it so difficult to give feedback on the intensive, on this incredibly complex experience. The only thing I know is that ever since I have come back, I feel so much better. I was afraid that all this "magic" wouldn't work in the daily reality, but it does. It seems that a ton of weight has been taken off my shoulders, both metaphorically and literally: The tensions in my shoulders are gone. Life is fun again and I can appreciate every little moment (ok, almost every little moment). And even my environment (work and friends) notices this change, this new-found joy. What is most amazing to me is that we ourselves are able to accomplish all this, "just" by being loving parents to our inner child. This is such a powerful instrument. And the greatest gift that I took away from this intensive is that I could reintroduce my father in my life as my spiritual guidance. What I liked particularly is the safe environment (not to speak of this wonderful place in the desert); being guided on this quest of your inner child so lovingly by Margie and her team as well as through the work and the compassion of the fellow participants." Los Angeles, May, 2000
Christine Meusburger
This was my 2nd Intensive and even better than the 1st (difficult to imagine). The Intensive feels like I'm catapulted into a new level of understanding that would have taken years by conventional therapy. It truly feels like years of therapy are done in 5 days in the most loving environment one could possibly imagine.
Deb Klugger
"The Inner Bonding process has been a journey of highs and lows, and highs againand through this process I can say that I know Love - for the first time in this life of mine, I know the truth about giving and receiving Love. It is an experiential process like no other!" Santa Barbara Intensive, 12/05
Linda Selvage