Intensives
Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer Intensives for both individuals and couples.
In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself.
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Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
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Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
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Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
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Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
- Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.
The 5-Day Intensive maximum of 12-13 people provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core self, your wounded self, and your higher guidance. We work with Inner Bonding six hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.
In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships.
"Margaret’s Inner Bonding Intensive was life-changing, and let me explain. I’m not using that as a platitude. What I mean is that applying her divinely inspired process to one’s life actually changes everything. Through Inner Bonding we are given the tools to develop an incredibly powerful and loving relationship with ourselves. We open to our innate beauty and tenderness and our deserving-ness of love and care. We develop a strong, healthy self-advocate who goes after our dreams, believes in ourselves, and creates magic. AND we connect deeply to our guidance, that wise voice inside that has profound answers for us. WOW! The experiential nature of the program makes sure we both experience and anchor these transformations right then and there, giving us a newfound tool belt for weathering the complexities of life with grace and joy. As a professional in the coaching / transformation field, I have pretty high standards (lol). I was honored to have been facilitated in such deep healing work, and new adventures abound in my life!" ~ Barb Wade, Speaker, Author, Coach
"During the intensive, my true self, the pure and innocent child, became so clearly apparent and vivid and now he is a part of my daily life - no longer neglected. This experience has truly changed my being and life." ~Mike Devine, Farmer
Who Should Attend:
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Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
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Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
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Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
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People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
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Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
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Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
- Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.
The investment for Dr. Margaret's virtual Intensives is $2,195.00.
A $650 non-refundable deposit secures your space. Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.
For more Intensive testimonials, click here.
| Date | Event | Location | Hosted By |
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| 10/14/2026 08:00 AM | 5-Day Virtual Intensive | Dr. Margaret Paul | |
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Daily Inspiration
In your relationships, do you focus on what you love about the person or on what you don't like? Which do you offer the most - appreciation or criticism? Since no one will ever meet your idea of perfection, why waste energy on complaints and criticism? If you spend your energy offering love and appreciation, you will find your heart feeling full of love.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
The 5 day intensive was a deep inner bonding experience. As a young child I experienced grief, heartbreak, loneliness and helplessness. As an adult, my inner child still stuggles to get free from the wounded parts that sabotage my relationships and present life experiences. What I thought was a model of love was not love. Due to my own inner disconnection, I really struggled to be in a loving relationship with myself and others. During the intensive Dr. Paul patiently guides you step by step to uncover underlying false beliefs through the 6 step Inner Bonding process. You are patiently guided in a sacred safe space by Dr. Paul who is gentle yet honest.
Alicia Ford
"This is the first time I felt in a safe enough place to explore & share my inner self and truly be open to loving feedback. In the process, tools have been imparted to me that have the potential to change my life for the better. My only constraint now is me! Thank you." Durango Intensive, 4/07
David P. Best
"I am so grateful to have the opportunity to engage in such an absolutely powerful, life-changing experience. I have been on a self-exploration and self-healing journey for the past 40 years but have never come so close to really knowing the fullness of Who I Really Am and seeing so much more clearly my own self-created obstacles to that joy and freedom, as I was able to see during the intensive. I got to experience IB up-close and personal during the intensive and experience the most loving and safest healing environment that I have ever been a part of. Being relatively new to the process, I found the experience was so very helpful. Margaret’s loving and wise facilitation with everyone present allowed me to not just understand the IB concepts but actually experience them, allowing so many, many insights to naturally bubble up that I am amazed at how much I can now see and know more fully about my internal processes. I am so excited about what is in front of me because I feel much mental fog has blown away. Given that I am a psychotherapist by training and profession, the genius of IB cannot be stated enough! I have long searched for healing that acknowledges the human dilemma along with the Wholeness of Spirit and IB brilliantly weaves the work of the psyche into the tapestry of the Divine enabling me to grow more completely in all areas of my life and my experience. I learned so much about all the crafty, cunning and baffling ways I try to protect myself and control everyone and everything else, which actually keeps me from knowing my Divine Nature. I can see much more clearly now how I have created and become addicted to the Wounded Self and I am learning to practice far greater compassion for myself than I have ever been able to do before. My connection to my Highest Self is not cluttered by my wounded self as much as it was before. Inner Bonding is such a brilliant, creative, powerful healing process, that I would recommend it to everyone."
Jennifer Lyons
On the first night, I was able to work with Dr. Paul as she worked me through the six steps of inner bonding. The experience has helped me realize how to access my inner child as I would my adorable loving daughter. It was a moment of clarity for me. I cannot wait to continue practicing Inner Bonding. Dr. Paul has an energy you can feel. -2019
Monique
"The intensive has had an impact whose full import continues to unfold.
"I have had to realize, that even though I thought I was acting in sound ways in my interactions with others, in particular with people I was intimate with, I was not in fact practicing what I was preaching. Margaret Paul helped bring this into my awareness.
The intensive has helped me to cope with what may be the end of a relationship that was very important to me. I have personified my inner child with a little teddy bear who now sits next to me when I am at my computer, who rides along with me in the car when I go to work, and who joins me in my bed at night. The unexpected thing is that because of this bear, I do not feel alone, even though I am. It appears that by taking care of my inner child in this way I have made friends with myself and am therefore not truly alone. And in the process I feel I have also discovered the adult in me, who is mindful of how he treats his inner child. The little bear has thus also become my conscience. I look at him and know when something I might be tempted to do, such as stuffing myself, is not OK.
I am sure that this is just the start of a longer process of learning. I am grateful that I was able to participate in this course. I have also appreciated the love, support, and acceptance that was showered on me by all who participated - Margaret, assistants, and fellow seekers. And I very much appreciated the individual support, attention, and time I received from the assistants after the main sessions had ended each day - thank you Michel, Andrea, and Marsha." March, 2026 Intensive
Dieter Brueckner
"With each Intensive I am more and more amazed at the wealth of information I walk away with. It's priceless and life changing." Advanced Intensive, 11.17
Cindy Shore
