Defining Your Own Worth
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Can you imagine what a relief it would be to never have to gain others’ acceptance or approval - or to never have to perform ‘right’ - to feel worthy?
The desire to control and not be controlled is so great in many people that it often overrides caring about self and others. When you feel pulled at by someone to do what they want, do you go into automatic compliance or resistance? Next time you feel the pull, stop and ask yourself, "What is in my highest good, to do what this person wants or not?" This way you are making your own choices rather than being controlled by the other person or by your resistance.
By Dr. Margaret Paul