Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?

By Drs. Jordan and Margaret Paul

CompCare, 1983; Hazelden, Center City, MN, 1994.

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This is a powerful book for people in primary relationships. This best-selling book has become a standard text in many college counseling classes that deal with relationships. It has sold over 1,000,000 all over the world.

"Arguably one of the most extraordinary books on relationships ever written."
--Jack Canfield, Coauthor, Chicken Soup for the Soul Series

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Inner Bonding is a proven six-step self-healing process that has been developed and optimized over 30 years by Dr. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. and Dr. Erika Chopich, Ph.D. It’s comprehensive. It’s practical. And it always works when you do it.

Inner Bonding empowers you to self-heal the root causes of anxiety, depression, addictions, failed relationships and many other problems that inhibit your personal and spiritual growth and satisfaction. It teaches you how to love yourself rather than continue to abandon yourself, how to move beyond emotional dependency and attain emotional freedom, and how to heal the underlying control issues stemming from self-abandonment.