Ask your spiritual Guidance (whatever that is for you): What is the truth about the thoughts/false beliefs you may have uncovered in Step Three?
Ask: What is the loving behavior toward your Inner Child in this situation? What is in your highest good? What is kind to yourself?
Open and allow the answers to come through you in words, pictures, feelings, dreams, in talking with another, or in reading a book. The answers may not come immediately, but if you have a sincere desire to learn, they will come.
Is there someone to whom you give away your power to know what is best for you? Only you, in connection with your feelings and your Guidance, can know what is in your highest good. The path to your joy and wholeness is within your own heart and soul. Become your own Guru!
By Dr. Margaret Paul