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Hosted Chat
The hosted chat is hosted by Dr. Margaret or an Inner Bonding facilitator. Often a subject, such as relationships, addictions, boundaries, or parenting is chosen for the topic. Other times, it is open to any discussion.
Times: The times posted are all Pacific Time.
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Daily Inspiration
Forgiveness is the natural outcome of doing your inner work. As you learn to embrace and heal your own wounded self with love, you see that others' unloving behavior toward you came from a small wounded child within. Compassion for yourself and your woundedness leads to compassion for others and their woundedness. Forgiveness occurs naturally through your compassion for yourself and others.
By Dr. Margaret Paul
"The communal living feels really good - I love that we worked all day. I never felt like I needed more break time because it felt so comfortable to come and go to take care of myself. I love how accessible Margie is - I feel like she is one of us, not one above us, and I appreciate leaders like that - it is wonderful to know that as I continue this process, I become more and more real." Ossining, NY - August 25-29, 2000
Nancy Cronyn
"The inner work that I could experience has been really profound, I could really get free of a very old imprint of my wounded self. With the clear and connected Presence of Margret and the group I have released myself of guilt, shame and the deep feeling that there is something wrong with me.
This Intensive has been the drop that made it all spill over. A deep sense of integration of wisdom, love and forgiveness has been opened. And now after 5 days of connecting in very healing and safe space, I am embracing the gift my Loving Adult is giving me: 'You are innocent and loved, there is nothing wrong with you.' I am deeply grateful." November, 2023
Vera
My experience in the IB intensive was more powerful than 10 years of counselling. My marriage was transformed when I attended my first intensive and then my husband started practicing IB with me and we attended together. We are truly achieving intimacy in our relationship. It has exceeded all expectations. It is the best environment to heal self judgement and shame. I have never been happier in my life. Dr. Margaret Paul models the healthy adult. I am filled with gratitude to have the opportunity to work with her. I would highly recommend an IB intensive to anyone who desires to grow in body, mind, and spirit.
Margie Bult
"To say that this was a transformational experience does not begin to describe what occurred. I came to the intensive from a very wounded place and in this loving and nurturing environment, I began to love me and without labor wrote the following: I caught of glimpse of myself in the mirror and then I really looked. I saw me. I really saw me. I am beautiful. I was able to see what others see. My eyes sparkle like magic, my smile has the warmth of a very dear friend. At this very moment, I fully love me! The war is over and I am no longer alone. I did not need to envision myself as the wounded little girl to feel love and compassion. I felt love purely for my essence. Just me. No strings attached, no if only's, no judgements. How incredibly beautiful." Lucerne Valley, CA, June, 2000
Cindy Young
"The couples intensive helped illuminate the common dynamics (resist/control, etc.) that we experience in our relationship. I learned from everybody's work (including our own) how I can lovingly learn through conflict." Couples Intensive, Lucerne Valley, CA - 8/01
Sylvia Poareo -
"I have welcomed the knowledge and the tools to enable me to begin my journey into becoming a more loving adult not only to myself but to others as well. I am seeing things in a different light! This morning I prayed for thy will to be my will and for guidance to actually be thy will. This is the first time I have prayed in years." Lucerne Valley, CA
Becky Felder




