Intensive Testimonials

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It is a rare thing in life to experience unconditional love - a love that is both healing and liberating. Our five days together with Margaret Paul in the high desert was full of those profound, transcendent moments where fourteen souls became as one in a total unity of heart, mind, body, and soul. No judgment! Only love! For anyone who is deeply hurting and is seeking psychological and spiritual healing, five days with Margaret Paul will dramatically transform your life. She is a true mid-wife of the spirit with an awe-inspiring, infinite capacity to love. Your growth and gain will be determined by how much you are willing to risk and the depth you are willing to go.

E. Gene Vosseler,Minister, Speaker, Counselor

The Inner Bonding Intensive is an incredible experience. I was amazed at what was accomplished in 5 short days! I will say to my friends and family, 'Don't walk - run to the nearest Inner Bonding Intensive!.'

Wanda Vosseler,Administrative Assistant

"Here I have found the courage to push deep inside myself and give voice to the frightened wounded child inside me. Here have I learned the roots of my behavior, the painful truth that I was not raised, I was used. Here have I discovered that love of self is the first, best love, and with that beginning all else follows."

Anthony Torchia,Programmer, Web Developer
Los Angeles,California

"This was my second intensive. I could not imagine that I could have an experience as profound as my first intensive, but I did! I have opened up in ways I never imagined were possible." Los Angeles, May, 2000

Ilene Weingarten,Consultant
Los Angeles,California

"I found this a moving, energetic experience. Watching others work as well as doing my work helped me see many of the areas where I need more work and awareness. It's like God reached down and gave me his hand and started me on a wonderful journey of self-discovery. My goal is to give myself this gift once a year." Los Angeles, May, 2000

Wanda McPhaden,Realtor

"I find it so difficult to give feedback on the intensive, on this incredibly complex experience. The only thing I know is that ever since I have come back, I feel so much better. I was afraid that all this "magic" wouldn't work in the daily reality, but it does. It seems that a ton of weight has been taken off my shoulders, both metaphorically and literally: The tensions in my shoulders are gone. Life is fun again and I can appreciate every little moment (ok, almost every little moment). And even my environment (work and friends) notices this change, this new-found joy. What is most amazing to me is that we ourselves are able to accomplish all this, "just" by being loving parents to our inner child. This is such a powerful instrument. And the greatest gift that I took away from this intensive is that I could reintroduce my father in my life as my spiritual guidance. What I liked particularly is the safe environment (not to speak of this wonderful place in the desert); being guided on this quest of your inner child so lovingly by Margie and her team as well as through the work and the compassion of the fellow participants." Los Angeles, May, 2000

Christine Meusburger,Consultant
Mountain View,California

"The two main reasons I wanted to come to the intensive was to work on recent and past anger issues and address the shame I'm feeling about a failed marriage. At the conclusion of the workshop I feel I got even more than what I was looking for. Not only was I able to successfully resolve the above two issues but I also feel a much deeper sense of connection between my spirit guides and my inner core child. This was the greatest gift of all."

Janet Hamilton,Manager

"Witnessing the process is sometimes just as powerful as being in it. I experienced this increasingly strong after I had lost my fear of taking care of myself while being with others. I found that compassion was growing in everyone, the more pain and fear we were able to access and heal. When said with compassion, there were always beautiful contributions to someone else's work. Access and heal, there are two keywords for me. To me, this is the most accessible and healing work I have ever done. A lot of psychological processes focus on analyzing and understanding, but there was always a missing link. It is only through the intent to love and learn that it makes sense to go with the pain of a deep emotional understanding. It is also the first time that stepping back into normal life has not been difficult. Inner Bonding is everywhere around us and can be done at any time of the day. Sometimes it's a piece of cake and sometimes it takes time and energy when painful issues come up. Feeling my own resistance making place for the real feeling underneath is a glorious moment when pain and joy come together. I will be back soon with the next bundle of experiences!"

Margarita Galen,Manages Clowns for Hospitals

"This was a powerful intensive which has inevitably shifted my ability to tune into my feelings in a way which results in being compassionate with myself and others."

Tom Robinson,Business owner

"My fourth intensive has offered me the challenge of fully embracing, enjoying and loving my essence, my little girl. Understanding how I control others and my environment using shame/guilt is an insight that I finally fully comprehend. The resistance I put up is so obvious to me now. I had no idea how much I controlled any love coming from within me or from others. The love I feel for others' little [inner] children was always kept from me since 'I didn't deserve love.' Now I clearly understand how this false belief is a way that I use to control the pain of abandonment. Now I look at my little girl's photo and think 'You mean she deserves all the love I so easily give to others?' I'm just getting used to the idea - could it really be true? Seeing the beauty in others and none in myself has been a way of life for me - now I want to put as much passion into loving my [inner]little girl as I've given to Tim's [her son] little boy and all my client's [inner] little kids. Little Jeanette has been waiting far too long to be loved unconditionally. Thanks to all you bring to the light for me and others to finally see, Margie!!!!" Los Angeles, May, 2000

Jeanette Boerger,Counselor
Fort Wayne,Indiana

"In this, my second intensive, I found I was able to focus much more on my work and my goals than in the first. The work I did in dialoguing with the wounded adolescent was, I think, an excellent start on my future dealings with the problem of rejection, anger, guilt and depression engendered by battling elements of the wounded adolescent." Los Angeles, May, 2000

Noel Sorrell,Aged non-pensioner and editor
Albuquerque,New Mexico

"During the seminar I realized how hurt I was and how I was treating myself and my inner child. In the intensive I discovered a whole new world for my healing. I'm really committed now. It's worth every effort. Thank you very much." Los Angeles, May 2000

Pedro Alvarez,Economist, advertiser

"[Of greatest value was] the unfoldment of the inner child in myself and every other individual in the group. Also, the love and safety of finding my wounded self in the comfort of my 'new family' as the group has become I finally got, on a feeling level, what it means to 'Let go and let God' and [realized that asking] 'What would Jesus do?' [is the same as asking] 'What is the loving action?'"

Kendra Bevans,Business Assistant

"By being in a group with others learning the process, not only was I able to benefit from my own work, I also learned just as much and more from everyone participating. The intensive gave me the tools, through hard work, to give myself the greatest gifts I have ever received: connection to the Universal Energy (or Spirit); freedom from fear of being alone; discovery of my personal power; and joyous anticipation of my life's journey and lessons. I believe Inner Bonding saved me from having to be numbed out with drugs (antidepressants, etc) to get through life. It literally saved my life. I was able to heal my deepest shame (that I'm currently aware of)."

Tom Thorpe,Computer Programmer

It gave me a safe place to face, explore, experience and express some of the deepest secrets, pains, and hidden areas of the forming of my entire life - family, parents, personal relationships - the actual make up of my entire life. Now I have the missing pieces to the puzzle of my life and the tools to really be more loving to myself and therefore have a much more fulfilling life. Margie's attention, love, support and intuition is so profound. I got to heal a core profound issue in my life. Much healing was present here.

Erica Gimpel,Actress
Los Angeles,California

"I like the sense of community that develops with the group over the course of the intensive. Lacking this in my everyday life, it is incredible to experience what a loving, open, sharing community could/can be like."

Karen Schnell,Director, Chaplaincy Program, Children's Hospital
Los Angeles,California

During the five-day Inner Bonding Workshop I could feel my heart unfolding, opening, as I faced my core issues and felt myself move through blocks that have stood for most of my life. I feel a deep sense of joy and aliveness and a vastly increased capacity to love. We have been on a spiritual path for many years, but not until Inner Bonding came into our lives did that spirituality really come alive. Our lives have changed, both individually and in our relationship. What we always knew was possible, but didn't know how to get to, is now truly happening. Its wonderful - the ultimate joy! Joy to know that we are growing to be our real selves, towards God, to see it and to feel it in our everyday lives. I walk around in love with myself and Bruce and everyone, and the great thing is knowing that it can just continue this way. It's been different with the kids, too....A deep calm is welling up in the family...its already leading to more fun! Oh, its good.

Diana Grace Reininger,Psychotherapist

Throughout my adult life I have felt immature and would flinch inside when someone referred to me as a man. It did not seem to fit. Now, after attending the Inner Bonding Intensive Workshop I understand why. I have been operating from an Adult-Child state rather than as a functional loving Adult. During the workshop I was able to make a solid connection with my Inner Child which seemed to empower my functional Adult. Now, for the first time in my life, I can say I feel like a man inside. I feel much more self-assured and capable.

Bruce Reininger,Farmer

This was one of the most extraordinary experiences in my life. Through years of therapeutic and spiritual work, I was able to become very competent in my outside world. However, my primary relationship with my husband suffered. I had never healed a lonely, wounded Inner Child, and was protecting her with an angry adolescent. Through this intensive - connecting with G-d and embracing my wounded self in a non-judgmental, supportive environment - I am beginning to feel whole, connected. Recharged. That feeling of helplessness and despair is being replaced by desire and love for a new way of life. Thank you.

Elaine Katz,Educator
Los Angeles,California

[Of most value was] "the intense work with Margaret and Charlie - the guided exploration with other participants, i.e., sometimes 2 people worked at the same time if they had a common issue. this approach is unique in its ability to help participants achieve inner clarity and truth which ultimately leads to serenity. Thank you so much."

Mai Lon Gittelsohn,Retired Teacher, Writer, Singer
Del Mar,California

The couples intensive allowed my wife and me to delve deeply into the nature of our 18 year marriage. Through our joint exploration at the intensive, our eyes were more fully opened to the splendor and divinity of our individual souls. This in turn allowed us to more fully embrace the sanctity of possibility that sprouts from our relationship. We left the intensive filled with a sense of wonder, awe and excitement. We revel in the vision of what lies ahead as we join our creative energies to forge a more synergistic, transcendent love.

Kevin Kimball,Attorney

The most outstanding moment for me in the intensive was when I saw [a member of the intensive] as a one and a half year old, isolated from family and all that was familiar, faced with the decision of whether to live or die. And she chose life. As I understood the majesty of her decision, deep respect for her poured into me and filled me to overflowing. I was awed and honored to be in her presence. I had similar moments with many of the others in the group. I believe that it is from that position of deep respect for a person that I can actually be a conductor of love and light from God to his child. I want to do that. Today is Sunday, our Sabbath. We are fasting today, and I was reading in Isaiah: Is not this the fast that I have chosen? To loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke? Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thy own flesh?... And if thou draw out thy soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul; then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and thy darkness be as the noonday: And the Lord shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, and make fat thy bones: and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not. ...and thou shalt be called , The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in.' (Isaiah 58:6-7, 10-12 King James Version) So, Margie, that is my name for you : Margie -The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in. I think it is a beautiful name that fits you well. I love the new path that I dwell in. There is more light here. Thank you for the true reflection of who I am. I remember the look on your face when you told me about meeting me for the first time. It has been a great source of peace and comfort to me. Thank you."

Jill Kimball,Nurse

"I have let go of significant self-limiting behaviors and false beliefs and moved more fully towards thoughts and actions that are truly loving to myself and others. With Margie's help, I have seen, felt and started to reclaim my spontaneous, creative essence. This process has helped me feel more deeply the reality that we are all God's children."

Margaret Anderson,Psychotherapist

"[Of greatest value was] working with my issues and connecting with God to ask for resolution and assistance and acceptance of self."

Ron Davis,Businessman
Long Beach,California

[Of greatest value to me was] the loving atmosphere where there was no blame or shame and I was safe to explore myself. Leaving here to continue my life's journey with the tools necessary to be loving to myself was a gift that will always be with me.

Gregg Warter,Builder
Gig Harbor,WA

In this world there are so many different kinds of instruction manuals and books for ways to cope with life's problems. Inner Bonding is so much more than a 'how to' or 'fix it' process. It is a conscious way of living, which allows anyone a physical way to tune in to what is really going on whenever they need it, and it provides a healthy alternative to conventional ways of dealing with fear and conflict. We all can tap into the Higher Power - Inner Bonding is a marvelous way to do that and heal our wounds as a result.

Barrie Hurst,Executive Assistant
Los Angeles,CA

What I liked best was the energy that Margie and Inner Bonding created in the room, the bonding that was then created within the group. And the feeling of safety that resulted was of greatest value because it allowed me to be unafraid and completely truthful.

Jimmer Bolden,Performer
San Diego,CA

Margie's work with me and others gave a concrete demonstration on how to connect to Spirit and take loving action. I realized that I saw taking loving action for myself as being selfish. Now I am empowered to know that taking loving action for myself is the very key to being loving to others.

Stephani Victor,Actress, Speaker
Los Angeles,CA

[When asked if the Inner Bonding Intensive was of value to her] Are you kidding? Yes, of course! Being in a group is invaluable. You learn so much from everyone else's work. Somehow God brings all the right people together to touch off all of each individual's issues. Having the support and energy of the group, and a safe place, is an essential ingredient to letting to. [Margaret is] great, compassionate, insightful, gifted. I would and will recommend it to anyone who is ready.

Ilene Weingarten,Entrepreneur
Los Angeles,CA

I am not new to personal growth. The intensive propelled me to a whole new level of understanding myself, my life and what I still need to do to heal. Nothing I have ever done has had as deep an impact on what it's like to be me as did this workshop.

Phyllis Stein,Cardiology Research
St. Louis,Missouri

Inner Bonding is a tremendous tool for the business world. I feel confident and assured that I can go about getting what I need in the work place and being loving to myself and others in the process.

Veni Parsons,Secretary

I feel total freedom...and total freedom is a whole new world for me. Now that I have encountered [Inner Bonding] I can't imagine not doing it. I think the pain would be too intense to bear if I didn't continue this work now that I have found the peace that is possible.

Danna Doyle,Screenwriter
Santa Monica,CA

I learned how important it is to trust God and invite him in every time my Inner Child feels unsafe.

Ann Rosell,Student
Corwin Springs,MT

It gave me answers to the unanswered questions. It is a turning point in my life - for the better.

Raya Johansson,Bodyworker, Zone Therapist

Of all the workshops I've taken on my journey to heal my childhood wounds, this was the most beneficial. As a therapist, I recommend it to my clients and their experiences have been transforming.

Betsy Bradbury,Psychotherapist
Ann Arbor,Michigan

This has been a life-changing experience. It was very valuable because it was instrumental in identifying the root cause of many major obstacles in my life. But Inner Bonding not only identifies the problem but provides a methodical means of solving the problem in a gentle/spiritual/holistic manner. I was also extraordinarily impressed by the possibility of this technique being utilized as a means to overcome the wounds of racism.

Maureen Alphonse-Charles,Consultant

I find it somewhat ironic that I'm writing something that is impossible to articulate. The truth is, the message cannot be conveyed in words. It is an experience. One beyond any I've ever encountered. One cannot accurately describe miracles. You must encounter them first hand. I know that I am still only a short way down this enlightened path, but now it is not a daunting chore, it is a wonderful and exciting journey. I'm going back for more. Life is great.

Bill Lae,Special Visual Effects Director for Television and Film
Los Angeles,CA

For years I wanted someone to hear my pain and my anger. This is the first place I felt safe enough to fully experience both.

Kim Smith,Psychotherapist
Fort Wayne,IN

Probably the best gift I ever gave myself!!! I felt emotional shifts and a sense of peace and freedom on issues I have struggled with all my life.

Bob Ahlmeier,Electrical Engineer
Arlington Heights,IL

Through Margaret Paul's modeling and loving guidance, I experienced the necessary shift in consciousness to connect with my loving Adult, my own Higher Source, my Inner Guidance system. Inner Bonding works. My life, my relationships and my practice are better than ever.

Joyce Martell,Psychotherapist

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